About me

Hi, I’m Jeffrey Mattis. Relationships coach

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Special Feature

Asian datings. Online format

When I first tried online dating in my forties, I didn’t expect much. I thought it was for younger people who lived on their phones. But then something unexpected happened: I discovered how rich, exciting, and surprisingly deep online connections with Asian women can be

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How articles are created

All the content on this website is based solely on the author’s personal preferences and experiences.

Every article reflects a real situation that inspired reflection, a story worth sharing, or simply an insight from everyday life

Spotting a Situation

It all begins with a real event, challenge, or observation that sparks curiosity or emotion.

Reflecting on the Experience

Jeffrey analyzes the situation through his own lens — what worked, what didn’t, and what felt meaningful.

Forming a Personal Insight

From that reflection comes a takeaway or idea worth sharing — always grounded in real experience.

Publishing the Story

Finally, the thought is transformed into a blog article where readers can learn from Jeffrey’s perspective.

MY STORY

My story: meeting a wonderful Japanese woman online

I never thought being a man in my forties would lead me to laughing over sushi bricks with a younger Japanese woman I met online. But here we are. Curious how cultural differences turned into the best part of our connection? You might just see yourself in my story