Hey there 👋 I’m Jeffrey Mattis — 40 years young (yes, still clinging to that “young” part), an American by passport but a citizen of airports and train stations thanks to my travels across Asia and Europe. ✈️🌍
I’m a relationships coach, which basically means I help people figure out love, connection, and communication… without needing a PhD in decoding text messages. 💬❤️
Over the years, I’ve seen how relationships look in different cultures — from the romantic cafés of Paris to the bustling streets of Bangkok. What I’ve learned is simple: no matter where you are, love is both universal… and universally confusing. That’s where I come in.
My coaching style? Think of me as part coach, part travel buddy, part translator of the mysterious language of relationships. I’ll help you cut through the drama, laugh at the mess, and build something real — whether it’s stronger communication, more self-confidence, or just figuring out why your partner really left their socks on the floor again. 🧦
If you’re looking for someone who can bring wisdom, honesty, and a bit of humor to the sometimes-tricky world of relationships, you’ve come to the right place.
Got a question about dating, culture, or just want to share your story? I’d love to hear from you. Drop me a message — every great conversation starts with a simple “hello.”
I didn’t wake up one morning and decide, “I’m going to be a relationships coach.” Like most people, my path was a little messier (and a lot more interesting).
Growing up in the U.S., I was always fascinated by people — why we connect, why we fight, and why we sometimes say the exact opposite of what we mean. Over the years, I found myself being the “go-to” friend for advice. If someone had a breakup, a fight, or was crushing on someone they couldn’t figure out, guess whose phone would light up? Yep — mine.
But it wasn’t just about giving advice. I started to realize that relationships — whether romantic, family, or friendships — shape so much of our happiness. And yet, nobody really teaches us how to have them. We’re all just improvising, hoping Google searches and rom-coms will cover the gaps.
That realization led me to dig deeper. I studied, I trained, I listened, and I traveled. Spending time in both Asian and European countries opened my eyes to how culture influences love and connection. I learned that while traditions differ, the core struggles are the same everywhere: communication, trust, and understanding ourselves.
By the time I hit 40, it became clear — this wasn’t just something I was good at, it was something I was meant to do. So I stepped fully into the role of relationships coach.
Now, I help people navigate love and connection with a mix of practical tools, empathy, and humor (because if we can’t laugh at ourselves, what’s the point?). My mission is simple: to help others build stronger, more fulfilling relationships — the kind that make life’s journey not just easier, but more joyful.
All the content on this website is based solely on the author’s personal preferences and experiences.
Every article reflects a real situation that inspired reflection, a story worth sharing, or simply an insight from everyday life
It all begins with a real event, challenge, or observation that sparks curiosity or emotion.
Jeffrey analyzes the situation through his own lens — what worked, what didn’t, and what felt meaningful.
From that reflection comes a takeaway or idea worth sharing — always grounded in real experience.
Finally, the thought is transformed into a blog article where readers can learn from Jeffrey’s perspective.
